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October 10, 2013 at 6:41 pm #12084
I feel as if there is no hope for me at the moment as i haven’t really felt one bit of horniness since about early March time this year. So soon it will be getting close to half a year.
Other symptoms I didn’t mention in the other thread include:
constant bags under my eyes
I nearly now always wake up a few times in the night even though the temperature is hot i think this isnt a factor. When i do wake up its a lot earlier than usual now and I don’t feel like lying in what so ever.
I really don’t want to go to college when I wake up on the morning and I haven’t been going for a while apart from the odd few days.
Stress and frustration as I don’t know where to buy products in the UK and I don’t have too much money as I’m currently at college without a job
When I talk to someone I feel as if I have to look into there eyes to show that i am concentrating on what they are talking about but that’s really hard for me.
I am often really hungry and feel bloated a lot, I feel as if I’m putting on weight as well.
I hardly have any friends any more as I exclude myself from going to party’s, music gigs etc. just simply because I don’t want to and it doesn’t feel right.
I played football the other day (soccer) and even though I stupidly played at midday when the sun was right over us, i still felt bad and felt sick afterwards. You know when you get the flu you shiver and have goosebumps and your face feels on fire when to everyone else it looks really pale? that’s how I felt
I don’t know whether i want to take the viadopa and arginox pills i ordered from dr lin any more (been on them for 2 days) as i have just masturbated and felt decreased pleasure than any other normal masturbation. And so far they haven’t made me any hornier, or more healed.
Sorry about writing so much but I just had to get that off my chest. And I know some of the symptons are wierd but thats how I feel.
Any advice and direction pointing is helpful.
At the moment I feel like I cant be bothered to continue living.There is another way that you can stop porn addiction, chronic masturbation and recover your sexual health without fighting it with willpower. With the right mindset you won't even relapse. You can learn more about the recovery program hereOctober 10, 2013 at 6:44 pm #12085
Unfortunately, I don’t have long to reply this morning, but I feel compelled to, nonetheless. DON’T GIVE UP!!! It is tough, but it takes time. I am going through it too. The only advice that I can give is to cut out any sexual activity for an extended period of time. I have been doing this (on and off) for the past several weeks and I am noticing that I am improving. The main thing at this point is to know that you are not the only one having problems. You will get better.October 10, 2013 at 6:47 pm #12086
I understand I am not the only one and I hope people understand that what I have written up there isnt mainly just to benefit me. I hope new members can read it and gain some knowledge on the sexual exhaustion.October 10, 2013 at 6:50 pm #12087
if it helps i myself am a college student and haven’t bought any of the stuff talked about in this forum. the last thing you want to do is to feel depressed and lose hope. there is always hope. there is always light at the end of the tunnel. just be patient. i’m graduating this year with a chemistry degree and will find a job and as soon as i find one i will be buying all the supplements i can get my hands on. i’m more concerned about losing weight now. i’ve lost around 10 pounds and tomorow i’m starting to do cardio. i never had any friends because of my size. i guess thats why masturbation helped me out. i could careless about friends these days if all what is left is partying and drinking and smoking. i’d rather be happily married to a lovely girl and live my life peacefully.October 10, 2013 at 6:52 pm #12088
Hey yall. I feel yo pain but this is what i know…You really need to get a social life. This is SO important. and it does help…ALOT. You should know most people really are cool people. There are a few nasty people but most are cool. Get some chics even if you have sexual problems. Chics really are the coolest creatures on earth and they have a way of making you feel nice..even when you feel theres no hope.
Bodybuilding (in moderation) is also awesome…it gives you crazy confidence, you get in shape and you meet friends while at it. Good luck!October 10, 2013 at 6:54 pm #12089
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 6:56 pm #12090
Thanks I’ll have a look at getting the supplements in the near future
I will try and get a blood test done for my testosterone as soon as possible.
The only reason for that I don’t have a job is because I’m in college and concentrating on my studies which I’m sure you picked up on. I get EMA money from the government to continue my studies, which I receive every week so I should be able to afford anything more ‘pricier’ that you suggest.
Finally will a 15 minute jog do? or does it have to be a 30 minute walk?October 10, 2013 at 6:57 pm #12091
hey man it CAN be fixed
even i tried crazy stuff
while i had a girl in the beginning i wouldnt have an erection
so i found out a way to get one, although from the wrong perspective, focusing on NO production
what i did was this: i would take two or three capsules of tribulus with 1000 mg each every day before i would see my girl again, then on the day itself, i would also take one viagra/one yohimbine 8 mg tab and a bottle of water filled with a tablespoon of mucuna (because i wasn’t horny enough, and the mucuna made me horny)
when my girl asked what the disgusting stuff in the bottle was, i just told her, oo herbal medicine
but now i see it’s possible for me to have an erection, but i know the underlying mechanisms now due to dr. lin and this forum!
dont give up.. soon i will have my alpha gpc/alcar and hopefully craniyums and can concentrate on getting rid of this motherfucker for good!October 10, 2013 at 7:00 pm #12092
hmm well whats your budget for a month, how much can you spend on this?
if i were you i would concentrate for one or two months (apart from your studies) on getting this mofo fixed
here i can get a bottle of lecithin with 50 caps of 1200 mg for euro 2.50
so each day you could take 7 caps, which would be 8.4 grams, a good starting point
a bottle of 5-htp from griffonia seeds will cost me 30 euros for 120 caps of 100 mg (last me two months)
bottle of tyrosine with 120 caps of 500 mg is 17 euros (last me two months)
a bottle of omega 3-6-9 will cost me 19.50 euros, with 180 caps can last me one month (or two if you dose low)
so it’s quite possible to do this
let’s say 10 euros for the lecithin and 10 euros for 5-htp and 10 euros for tyrosine, is 30 euros a month (add the omega if you like, then its 40)
maybe manny can chime in on this one…
let’s say i take the 5-htp two tabs a day at 50 mg, like dr. lin recommends.. he recommends one in the afternoon for stress and conversion to serotonin, and one before sleeping 50 mg, to aid in melatonin production and restoring the body
can the tyrosine be taken at night also along with the 5-htp (because i read serotonin and dopamine should be raised at the same time), or should it be 5-htp one during the day, two tabs of tyrosine, and then only 5-htp at night?
like to hear manny’s comment on this
anyway good luck, if you work for one weekend in a club/bar you can easily buy the supps u want and recover (maybe in two or three months)October 10, 2013 at 7:01 pm #12093
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 7:05 pm #12094
i got from dr lin this:
moodmax to calm down and relieve stress in the morning
5-htp and dopafibra, for increasing serotonin and fighting stress plus dopamine increase
evening moodmax and dopafibra
before bed 5-htp to increase melatonin and recharge my system
so i think it’s probably best to take 5-htp at 50 mg during lunch and 50 mg just before bed
just not sure on what time to take tyrosine, ur rite i searched and found definitely not at night for insomnia
so maybe in the morning and afternoon
dr. lin also recommends the best combination for improving dopamine is phenylalanine, tyrosine and yohimbe
this might be overkill thoughOctober 10, 2013 at 7:07 pm #12095
My budget is fine for all those supplements you suggested.
So if I purchase 5-htp, tyrosine, protein shake, lecithin and omega 3-6-9 could you advise me on when to take each supplement?
What improves what by the way?
Tyrosine improves dopamine? what about the rest?
Also I’ve read about you talking about Alpha-GPC, will I need this aswell?October 10, 2013 at 7:09 pm #12096
yohmbie you have to be craeful with. it is reported to increase blood pressure. phenalalanine is what is found in most of the bodybuilding protein shakes.October 10, 2013 at 7:12 pm #12097
lecithin increases acetylcholine (when taken in high dosage, like alpha gpc does)
5-htp increases serotonin
tyrosine increases dopamine
zma/tribulus increases testosterone but should be used after you have done the above for a few months
omega is for overall good health and against inflammationOctober 10, 2013 at 7:15 pm #12098
Myself, kickinit and now David has mentioned lack of emotion as a symptom so it is correct to conclude that lack of emotion is a part of the sexual exhaustion syndrome.
Now what causes lack of emotions? Well it has to lay in the neurotransmitters and hormonal system. Since TCM considers the main cause of impotence to be due to kidney deficiencies which can be of the yin and or the yang nature which is often the result of too much stress and sexual activities, can this be reversed via the empowering of the adrenals? I am currently taking adrenal extracts and will keep you all updated.October 10, 2013 at 7:16 pm #12099
you might have done a DHEA test before. the test will tell you how well your adrenals are going. anyhow good to hear thingz from ya and keep it going. low oxyoctin levels which are a result of low dopmaine levels can also cause loss of emotion.
but when you sat no emotion what do you sepcifically mean. is it like no emotion when you ejaculate or just no emotion during daily life?October 10, 2013 at 7:19 pm #12100
you need to fix your dopamine system so that the dopamine can start producing oxytocin again. dopamine will also lower prolactin so more oxytocin can be released. a high prolactin will inhibit the pituary for the release of these hormones.
dopamine will give you the aggression,motivation, fearlessness, etc
oxytocin will give you feelings of love, sadness, careOctober 10, 2013 at 7:22 pm #12101
So can I purchase the supplements that I listed for healing? They will help me right?
And in what order should I take them?October 10, 2013 at 7:23 pm #12102
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 7:26 pm #12103
Ok that’s great. I’ll let you and everyone else know how I’m getting on regularly.
How many capsules do I need to take of each at one time? or dosage in grams?
And also does this list look ok before I buy? –October 10, 2013 at 7:28 pm #12104
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 7:31 pm #12105
I am going to buy the supplements from the website. Ok I’ll try and see if that £9.99 sale price protein shake is still in aswell.
Edit: I’ve had a look and I don’t think the protein shake offer is still on but I could be wrong.October 10, 2013 at 7:33 pm #12106
Oh bloody hell they won’t accept my Visa Electron card. I hope they do the same supplements and have them in stock in my local town shop.October 10, 2013 at 7:35 pm #12107
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 7:38 pm #12108
what does 5htp help with? what symptoms?October 10, 2013 at 7:41 pm #12109
5htp + fish oil will boost serotonin. a good protein shake can also helpOctober 10, 2013 at 7:43 pm #12110
what does a correct sorotinin system lead to and mean? what are you lacking if its been diminished?October 10, 2013 at 7:46 pm #12111
a good serotonin level helps us sleep, prevents the dopamine to adrenaline conversion, decreases stress and anxiety, prevents premature ejaculation etc.October 10, 2013 at 7:49 pm #12112
hey manny, what would you do for severe delayed ejaculation?October 10, 2013 at 7:53 pm #12113
u mean u ejaculate very late. probably means u have too much serotonin i suppose and too little dopamine.October 10, 2013 at 7:55 pm #12114
Yea, probably. I bet low dopamine is another form of depression and that doctors automatically assume it’s serotonin and end up making people feel worse!October 10, 2013 at 7:58 pm #12115
yeah for dopamine really the best bet is craniyums. if you can purchase that it will be really good. otherwise try your luck with l-tyrosine. my protein shake contains 550mg of l-tyrosine and 1000mg of phenylalanine and i’m strating to think that it might be doing something. i usually drink 2 of these. typically in the morning and the afternoon.October 10, 2013 at 7:59 pm #12116
As I’m probably going to be buying the supplements at the weekend what should I take first? for example what should I start to raise firstOctober 10, 2013 at 8:01 pm #12117
raise serotonin first then dopamine. for acetylcholine it doesn’t matter pretty muchOctober 10, 2013 at 8:03 pm #12118
I’ll hopefully be picking up the suggested supplements this weekend coming up as I didn’t get a chance the past weekend.
Just some more symptoms i’ve been experiencing include:
Diarrhea everytime I go to the toilet, and when I pass wind it really smells ( Yes i know it smells all the time but mine is just constantly awful + hot burning sensation when the wind comes out)
Decreased size of penis and testicles – this happens when it wants to. What I mean by this is for example I could wake up and my penis and testicles can be really small and tight but a few hours later they can be hanging down like normal.
No tingling/tickling sensation when I pull my foreskin back.
A lot of stress especially in my stomach (If you’ve ever run a race and your waiting for the gun to be fired to start, it’s that nervous feeling of butterflys just a lot of the time)
Also I wouldn’t say I sleep well every night but I’ve started waking up really early, now i only ever do this if i know i have to go out early the next day. Plus I don’t feel like lying in aswell and this is a shock to me as I’m a teenager.October 10, 2013 at 8:04 pm #12119
i think the issue of diarrhea is more to do with your diet and what you eat. plus also if youre taking in too much fish oils. testicles are outside of your body for a reason. yes they will shrink and expand thats normal. penile shrinkage coudl be either to low acetylcholine or low test levels. you also mentioned low sensitivity which perhaps indicates low acetylcholine levels,
its sounds like you have too much stress hormone.October 10, 2013 at 8:06 pm #12120
I got the supplements today which included:
Seven Seas High Strength Cod Liver Oil (Liquid form)
And the protoplex protein shakes
I’ll start taking them tomorrow.
Also I was just reading on the back of the 5-HTP bottle that they cause drowsiness? I am still ok to go ahead with taking them?October 10, 2013 at 8:08 pm #12121
what happens with 5-htp is that some of it gets broken down in the bloodstream and so thats why you may get drowsiness. i suggest you start off with lose doses 20mg typically and c what maximum dosage your body tolerates. the better option is to great those craniyums as they bypass the bloodstream for immediate delivery to the brain so all those side-effects you won’t experience much. the protein shake only works for the mild conditions.
try that l-tyrosine. it may work well for youOctober 10, 2013 at 8:11 pm #12122
you needed to get the “seven seas extra high strength” cod liver oilOctober 10, 2013 at 8:12 pm #12123
I couldn’t see it in the shop, . Will the one I have do or is it better to get the extra high strength?October 10, 2013 at 8:15 pm #12124
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 8:18 pm #12125
I am going to buy the supplements from the website. Ok I’ll try and see if that £9.99 sale price protein shake is still in aswell.
Edit: I’ve had a look and I don’t think the protein shake offer is still on but I could be wrong.October 10, 2013 at 8:20 pm #12126
Oh bloody hell they won’t accept my Visa Electron card. I hope they do the same supplements and have them in stock in my local town shop.October 10, 2013 at 8:21 pm #12127
editedOctober 10, 2013 at 8:24 pm #12128
what does 5htp help with? what symptoms?October 10, 2013 at 8:27 pm #12129
5htp + fish oil will boost serotonin. a good protein shake can also helpOctober 10, 2013 at 8:29 pm #12130
what does a correct sorotinin system lead to and mean? what are you lacking if its been diminished?October 10, 2013 at 8:31 pm #12131
a good serotonin level helps us sleep, prevents the dopamine to adrenaline conversion, decreases stress and anxiety, prevents premature ejaculation etc.October 10, 2013 at 8:33 pm #12132
hey manny, what would you do for severe delayed ejaculation?October 10, 2013 at 8:36 pm #12133
u mean u ejaculate very late. probably means u have too much serotonin i suppose and too little dopamine.
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