The Scourge of Pornography!

Sexual Reboot Forum The Scourge of Pornography!

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  • #5833

    Lamar

    I’ve thought about this a lot, not only in what it did to me but what I’ve seen it do to others, friends, family even

    Pornography is the modern day scourge!

    Don’t get me wrong I’m no prude and still even now look at it but I do try not to these days, not like I was before.

    If there was such a thing as evil then it’s got to be porn!

    Think about it, think about the time it takes from you, the energy it used up.

    The time you could have spent with your kids/wife doing quality things together but you chose porn!

    I believe porn attacks the family by attacking the father!

    I’ve lost so many years to it, lost so much time with my child, times I could have stayed up and read her a story as she drifted off to sleep.

    Instead as she was parmed off to bed upstairs I’d be downstairs getting off to porn!

    The number of times I’d hear her come down and have to switch off quickly as she came and asked if I was coming up yet to sit with her, I’d irritably reply “yes soon, go to bed!!!!!” of course by the time I’d done with the porn and gone up to see her she had cried herself to sleep alone – again!

    The lack of energy I’ve had over the years to do things with her, her always asking if we could do this, make that and me irritably saying “tomorrow” and we all know tomorrow never comes.

    How will she remember her dad, someone who was irritable, shouting a lot and always saying tomorrow and all because of a hopeless addiction to porn which also damaged my sexual relationship with my wife.

    What a complete waste of everything, of happiness, of good wholesome living and being content.

    If there is evil then porn is it, it can and does destroy families and relationships, it seems harmless but it’s insidious and all consuming.

    Now in this modern world we have broadband in just about evey home as well as work access. porn is growing bigger and BIGGER, more and more men are falling into it’s clutches.

    There are not many folk who understand how bad it is but I’m truly worried for the future, because this is NOT going to go away!

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    #5835

    Ray

    One more thing, we’ve only had the internet/web since early nineties which is when I got into porn as it was available early on. I was 30 something at the time and was sexually strong! Now we have kids growing up on it and are sexually weak whilst STILL in their teens, this is an appalling situation.

    At least I had a good grounding by not wasting my energy from the early days, always had good habits and masturbation was minimal. (twice a week at most)

    You kids haven’t even developed fully and are being exhausted before age 20, now with the proliferation of porn an young teens becoming heavy addicts the world has got to wake up soon as I believe we have a sexual time bomb here. More and more will succumb to sexual exhaustion and poor quality life as a result.

    #5837

    Wally

    before i got the internet, i was sexually healthy; only ejaculate a 2-3x per week, then when i got the internet and had full access to porn i started ejaculated everyday sometimes 2x per day. internet porn is a reason for my exhaustion

    #5839

    Roland

    I beleive internet porn is a reason for most folks sexual exhaustion today!

    Like you I was 2-3 X a week, with internet porn it rose steadily to 2-3 X a day even 5-7 times a day on bad days.

    Know what really annoys the hell out of me, folk that argue porn is harmless, just a bit of fun etc. the ignorance is unbelievable, until exhausted these folk will never understand the dangers of it. It’s absolutely insidious, creeps up on you from a few times a week to a massive daily habit that needs perpetual feeding.

    We now have computers in every home and a fast broad band connection, it’s the super porn highway and so many are gonna be damned.

    So many are at it and not exhausted yet, like I said there is a MASSIVE time bomb ticking here!

    #5841

    Ken

    It will hit everyone sooner or later, its good to know these things when young so lots of time to build vital energy and good long term health. Only by sharp mind or own experience, can we fully understand the loss of vital sexual energy through ejaculation/porn. Luckily we know these secrets now, although most people laugh at our theories, like I laughed at it when 16.

    Older people have the benefit of not over-masturbating/watching porn when young, so their body did developed to their primes unlike todays people who begin to overmasturbate/overejaculate/watching porn when 15-16.

    I do think, that most men live without ever being aware of the full potential that their body can give to them when its treated well.

    #5843

    Elden

    WE ARE THE REASON FOR OUR SEXUAL EXHAUSTION!

    fair enough there is no education or warning towards it what so ever.

    i had to rip the net apart to locate this place for a start,but come on guys?

    porn,internet?

    yea we were not educated on the risks,but we watched our selfs go limp,our health go down hill,our moods change and our sexual energy go.

    saying porn did this to us,is like a smoker diying of cancer saying adverttisement for cigars got them in that situation.

    #5845

    Dudley

    time, comparing it to smoking is not the same, everyone knows smoking is bad, porn would seem harmless… its not our faults, its the internets fault, and i blame my problem on the porn itself

    #5847

    Garret

    Max

    what?!!!

    #5848

    Isaias

    There are numerous ‘addictive’ things pushed into the faces of young people: alcohol, drugs, gambling. Nobody makes you indulge in these things and become dependant upon them. It starts as a choice, a temptation you have to be strong enough to resist or only indulge in sensible moderation.

    The internet and/or pornography cannot truly be blamed for someone’s weakness. You simply have to be strong enough to say no. Life is full of these choices everyday.

    #5849

    Darius

    porn / excessive ejaculation also blunt all senses and result in loss of will to live. Anger, frustration, hate towads women ( i have this when weak ) is result of weakness or energy/blood stagnation in the body and organs.

    Mantak Chia describes in his book how weak and depleted people do various crimes or suicide as they have no tools and energy to live properly ( or they have emotional stagnation in liver which cause anger that is needed to be released ).

    So we have to practise healing methods every day and control energy usage to prevent future problems ( massage, streching and 6 healing sounds are best for solving physical and emotional stagnation ).

    #5850

    Jamaal

    yeah but you say it like we knew what could happen. I sure as hell never knew one could get exhausted by masterbating too much….So I too blame this on porn

    #5852

    Alton

    yeah but you say it like we knew what could happen. I sure as hell never knew one could get exhausted by masterbating too much….So I too blame this on porn

    I’m sorry but this kind of attitude makes me a little angry; you are FULLY responsible for your own life. Sure, you might not have realisted over masturbation/ejaculation could be a bad thing but did you really think it was healthy to spend days on end sitting in front of your computer looking at pornographic images and jacking off? Did you really think this was a more enriching experience than anything else you could be doing: reading a book, exercising, playing a sport, interacting with the real world, finding a girlfriend? Did you think it was mentally, physically or spiritually a better thing to be doing than any of the above? Clearly it is all down to choice. No-one makes you look at the porn, you choose to look and mostly anything in excess is bad. You must accept it as your choice, your mistake, your weakness.

    If the alcholic blames the barman for serving him, or the brewery for making the beer, he is never going to be able to fully resolve his problem.

    #5854

    Marcus

    The point being missed here is alcohol and cigs etc are known to be actually bad for you.

    porn isn’t known to be physically detrimental.

    Sure we made a choice to view porn but didn’t actually think it may be bad, sure you could be doing better things than whacking off to porn I agree like exercise and more wholesome things but how many really suspected it would make them IMPOTENT FFS!

    No, when this all started I had no idea it was bad for me or could cause me actual physical problems and by the time I was hooked on it, it was too late.

    Heres’ the test, go to any group of folk and tell them drink and drugs is bad for you even if they are indulging in it they’ll almost certainly agree.

    Go to a group and tell them getting off to porn is bad for you and you’ll get laughed at, trust me.

    porn is bad news, no-one knows it’s bad for you until they experience the physical effects themselves, that is why it’s so dangerous.

    #5855

    Keith

    same

    #5856

    Jame

    Yes and go to a group of people and tell them that your daughter was crying herself to sleep every night because you were too busy jacking off to read her a story. And that your sexual relationship with your wife was damaged because you chose porn over the emotional and physical relationship with your loved one. I’m sure they’d acknowledge this was bad.

    But let me guess, this wasn’t your fault because porn had ‘attacked’ you and got you hooked. I’m sorry but this just sounds pathetic to me…

    #5857

    Eddie

    if you know somthings bad for you or not- you soon find out when you NOTICE what its doing to your body.

    #5858

    Carmine

    I think you’re just deliberately missing the point about how insidious porn is and the way it grips folk, none of us knew the dangers of it, seemed just like a fun past time until hooked, that is a fact for most who got involved.

    I’m not wasting my breath on you anymore, you’ve got your opinion and I have mine.

    porn is dangerous crap whether folk believe it or not!

    #5859

    Thaddeus

    I think you’re just deliberately missing the point about how insidious porn is and the way it grips folk, none of us knew the dangers of it, seemed just like a fun past time until hooked, that is a fact for most who got involved.

    I’m not wasting my breath on you anymore, you’ve got your opinion and I have mine.

    porn is dangerous crap whether folk believe it or not!

    Yes, it’s dangerous stuff if you’re weak enough to let it be!

    I just think you need to take a look at this aspect of your nature rather than depersonalising the problem.

    #5860

    Sebastian

    I think you’re just deliberately missing the point about how insidious porn is and the way it grips folk, none of us knew the dangers of it, seemed just like a fun past time until hooked, that is a fact for most who got involved.

    I’m not wasting my breath on you anymore, you’ve got your opinion and I have mine.

    porn is dangerous crap whether folk believe it or not!

    Yes, it’s dangerous stuff if you’re weak enough to let it be!

    I just think you need to take a look at this aspect of your nature rather than depersonalising the problem.

    Then that applies to most here because they all got unintentionally hooked on porn not dreaming for a minute it could cause them PHYSICAL harm.

    I’m not talking about mental harm here but a real physical problem of impotence or near impotence.

    As for being weak then that alos assumes I knew it was detrimental to health anyway before I started and made a choice to be weak and go for it anyway.

    I DIDNT KNOW it was bad until hooked, see the difference.

    It wasn’t a case of being weak and choosing it knowing it was bad like alcohol.

    #5861

    Colton

    but once you knew you were hooked and noticed the damage starting you could have stoped.

    this post and way of thinking will not help you.

    #5862

    Jeromy

    Time

    You don’t always notice damage straight away, you don’t alwasy realise that your dick isn’t as hard as it once was or rises as easily. It’s slow and insidious like I said. Once fully realised what’s going on and what’s happening I stopped and am now cured!

    #5864

    Johnathan

    You don’t always notice damage straight away, you don’t alwasy realise that your dick isn’t as hard as it once was or rises as easily. It’s slow and insidious like I said. Once fully realised what’s going on and what’s happening I stopped and am now cured!

    thats nothing to be confused about-thats somthing to be happy about-your cured-your problems are over

    fact is almost all men use porn

    same as almost all men drink

    on the bigger scale of things its a small number of men who turn into achcolholics or get sexually exhausted

    just a lesson learned-the product (porn or booze) is not bad- how its applied is what makes it bad

    water keeps me alive- if i abuse it it will kill me

    seen?

    #5865

    Wilmer

    I think you’re just deliberately missing the point about how insidious porn is and the way it grips folk, none of us knew the dangers of it, seemed just like a fun past time until hooked, that is a fact for most who got involved.

    I’m not wasting my breath on you anymore, you’ve got your opinion and I have mine.

    porn is dangerous crap whether folk believe it or not!

    Yes, it’s dangerous stuff if you’re weak enough to let it be!

    I just think you need to take a look at this aspect of your nature rather than depersonalising the problem.

    Then that applies to most here because they all got unintentionally hooked on porn not dreaming for a minute it could cause them PHYSICAL harm.

    I’m not talking about mental harm here but a real physical problem of impotence or near impotence.

    As for being weak then that alos assumes I knew it was detrimental to health anyway before I started and made a choice to be weak and go for it anyway.

    I DIDNT KNOW it was bad until hooked, see the difference.

    It wasn’t a case of being weak and choosing it knowing it was bad like alcohol.

    I’m not deliberately missing any point, maybe you are because you don’t want to see it.

    My general point is that, irrespective of whether you know over masturbation/ejaculation is physically detrimental your health, it is clearly a bad lifestyle choice to spend all your free time viewing porn and jacking off. Sure, you didn’t know it was going to make you impotent but how can spending so much time doing this be a healthy way to behave? It was a choice made BY you not FOR you.

    I just think the roots of any addiction you may have ended up with lie in the other areas of your life and the causative factors that made you WANT to seek and indulge in excessive (yes, moderate is not a problem) pornography.

    You are focusing on the physical harm this has caused you. What about the harm to your family relationships? This has to be more important and you were perfectly able to solve this problem by exercising choice and willpower.

    And, as Time says, there must have come a point that you (and others) realised that you were getting physical problems from your behaviour but did not stop. porn per se did not make you ill, merely your use/misuse of it.

    #5867

    Eldridge

    My point is the choice wasn’t made to indulge in pornography at such a high level. I wasn’t one day not using porn then suddenly decided to indulge to the extreme in it like I made a choice to do so. What I’m saying I went from light use to moderate to heavy, that’s what happens with porn, you don’t actual realise – it’s not about a choice thing. Your useage gets heavier very slowly, you don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, by the time your useage is heavy you are probaly addicted and like any addiction it’s hard to give up.

    My whole point is that porn addiction is different to alcohol addiction because you go into using porn not believing it to be bad or even addictive whereas alcohol is KNOWN to be bad and addictive.

    #5868

    Howard

    addiction is at the root of personality, if you never got addicted to porn, youd of got addicted to somthing else.

    we are all addicted to somthing,we just lacked the sensory acuity to tell and take action to stop it in its tracks,weather we knew it was addicted/harmfull or not means little.

    #5871

    Antonio

    My point is the choice wasn’t made to indulge in pornography at such a high level. I wasn’t one day not using porn then suddenly decided to indulge to the extreme in it like I made a choice to do so. What I’m saying I went from light use to moderate to heavy, that’s what happens with porn, you don’t actual realise – it’s not about a choice thing. Your useage gets heavier very slowly, you don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, by the time your useage is heavy you are probaly addicted and like any addiction it’s hard to give up.

    My whole point is that porn addiction is different to alcohol addiction because you go into using porn not believing it to be bad or even addictive whereas alcohol is KNOWN to be bad and addictive.

    I guess i just don’t buy into the fact you cannot realise what an impact something like that is having on your life. I think I regard it as the easy way out to blame the pornography and not yourself in any way. I think it is empowering to view your entire life as under your control. I think people that live in this way tend to have happier and more successful lives rather than people cursing their ill luck, or god, or fate or some external factor.

    Like I say, you had a wife to share intimate physical relations with and instead you were choosing to download internet porn. Surely there is some analysis required here into both yourself and your relationship. I know when I have a girlfriend I don’t look at porn whatsoever.

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